You’ve still got an interesting style. I feel like drawing a sketch before you start with pen might make it easier to achieve smooth lines. The design reminds me of Lydia from the Beetlejuice cartoon.
Do you have a photo editing program, like on a phone, that can rotate the image so it’s right side up? You could go back through all your posts and reupload them after rotating them.
Also, in general, Newgrounds isn’t Tumblr. Concise replies are the norm, and a lot less heed is paid here to feelings being hurt, for better or worse. I admire your attempts to generate discussion regarding LGBT issues, but for the time being, it’s probably better to focus on the people who already like you, and grow your self-confidence that way, while not bothering with everyone else. Gender is also a fill in the blank now :)